Body Image and the Traditional Family

Have you ever thought about how body image is directly related to the demise of the family in modern society?

The traditional family is not simply under attack, but at this point has been so viscously and repeatedly assaulted that she is no longer recognizable as the institution she was created by God to be. It is also indisputable, even by the most liberal among us, that women’s physical bodies are so manipulated and objectified that frequently they don’t operate as God intended either.

Considering the family, I give you the divorce rate in America, the number of children in single parent homes, domestic abuse, latchkey kids, grandparents raising their children’s children, the disappearance of discipline and the overthrow of family interaction by tiny, handheld computers.

Considering the female body, I give you airbrushed magazine covers, (interesting article here) innocent daughters on diets, (talk about that here) every conceivable product offering a plastic-enhanced, fat-free version, menus touting “guilt-free” so that women have social permission to eat, women who can never have children after putting their bodies through premature menopause due to eating disorders in their formative years (ask yours truly).

Well known, observed facts, all of the above. But what do they have in common?

…great masters [demon tempters] produce in every age a general misdirection of what may be called sexual ‘taste.’ This they do by working through the small circle of popular artists, dressmakers, actresses and advertisers who determine the fashionable type. The aim is to guide each sex away from those members of the other with whom spiritually helpful, happy, and fertile marriages are most likely.

Have you ever thought of that?
That our obsession with perfect bodies (at least what the momentary, finicky appetite of sexual desire deems salable) has distracted eligible men and women from proper interests in the other sex based on faith, commitment, intellect and prayer? That an attitude of entitlement lends to severed marriages as one partner selfishly believes they deserve to be happy at the expense of their vows?

We now teach men to like women whose bodies are scarcely distinguishable from those of boys. Since this is a kind f beauty even more transitory than most, we thus aggravate the female’s chronic horror of growing old (with many excellent results) and render her less willing and less able to bear children.

As a result we are more and more directing the desires of men to something that does not exist – making the role of the eye in sexuality more and more important and at the same time making its demands more and more impossible. What follows you can easily forecast.

What astonishes me, is that C.S. Lewis published The Screwtape Letters in 1942. Screwtape was right, what followed was easily forecast. Seventy-one years later, we are fulfilling his prophecy.

What came first, the chicken or the egg? What came first, the decline of the family as the foundation of society or the objectification of the female body? Regardless, if we intentionally address one, will we necessarily affect other?

Book Review, Christ’s Prophetic Plans

Every generation has believed that it is quite possibly the last one. Every generation of Christian has hoped that theirs would be the raptured generation. Oh, wait. Not every Christian believes there will be a rapture. Many Bible-believing, devout Christians differ on Christ’s millennial reign, the resurrection of the dead, when we receive our glorified bodies, whether the nation of Israel will be physically restored to the Promised Land, will there be a tribulation? was there a tribulation?

It is this confusion, fascination, discussion that leads me to review Christ’s Prophetic Plans, published by Moody Publishers.

I am a little nervous because the various opinions seem to be so polarizing for the body of Christ and yet, I feel like I’m straddling a line, leaning perhaps a little more on one foot than the other, but nonetheless able to see the question in multiple lights – all shadowed.

It all started few weeks ago, when my dad asked me, out of the blue, “Abby, do you believe in Dispensationalism?” Uh. Do I even know what that means?

Dad mentioned a book he had been reading called, The Apocalypse Code, by Hank Hanegraaff. Embarrassingly, I had read the book years ago and recommended it to my mom. Now, nearly 5 years later, I can’t even remember what it was about. Quick synopsis: He lands squarely on the opposite end of the spectrum from the book we’re reviewing this week.

So, I found it on Kindle and started reading it again. Then, while visiting my sister’s church in Dallas, her pastor’s Wednesday night series was The End Times. He landed on the Dispensationalist side, and admiring him as I do, I was hard pressed to disagree. Add to the list of Dispensationalists that I trust, and whose theology I generally agree with: Janet Parshall, Kay Arthur, Beth Moore and John MacArthur.

Am I confusing you? Good, we’re in the same boat. That’s why I chose to read Christ’s Prophetic Plans. If so many of my teachers disagree, I need all the facts from both sides of the issue to make an informed decision.

Christ’s Prophetic Plans , seeks to distill, without diluting, the principles of Dispensationalism and the basics of Futuristic Premillennianism. In the preface, John MacArthur states:

“This primer intends to provide a clear and convincing biblical explanation for the interpretive approach to Scripture that results in a knowable futuristic view of Christ’s millennial reign on earth, the certain validity of God’s promises to future Israel, and the crucial differences between Israel (as a people and a nation) and the NT church.”

I found MacArthur’s preface the most clarify three pages of the whole book. He lays out the distinguishing characteristic between the various views of eschatology: Dispensationalism:

…different administrations in the outworking of God’s redemptive purpose….Dispensationalists believe that all of God’s future covenant promises (Abrahamic, Davidic, and New) to Israel will be literally fulfilled – including promises of earthly blessings and an earthly messianic kingdom.

Christ’s Prophetic Plans, offers a succinct list of the tenets of Dispensationalism;

  1. a distinction between Israel and the church
  2. an approach to hermeneutics called literal interpretation
  3. the belief that the underlying purpose of God in the world is God’s glory

Oh how I welcome your opinions and feedback on this intimidating subject of eschatology. But regardless of which side of the discussion you advance, let us remember that we serve the same King and we have the same hope.

“And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.” 2 Corinthians 3:18

“For what I received I passed on to you as of first importance: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures,” 1 Corinthians 15:3-4